| Query: Wet Dreams...
Can we stop occurrence of wet dreams!
Kaivalya
Jnani:
Wet dreams result due to self imposed sexual inhibitions. In our daily
life we cross many of the opposite sex that directly or indirectly attract us... be it our household, place
of work, playground or a picturesque spot like beach etc. This leads to foreplay of sexual fantasies when
asleep and unconsciously the tap gets loose. It is only in the morning we find we had a wet
dream.
Wet dreams are a way to keep human beings under constant wrap. In absence
of wet dreams... most human beings... most men would go berserk and create havoc in the society. To contain
such a happening... God created free channel of wet dreams. That we cannot achieve in the physical manifested
life... we do it in our dreams. There is nothing wrong with that except we lose a vital cosmic energy
unknowingly that was otherwise so precious to us.
As a child grows from teens to a grown-up matured boy... the seemingly
sexual fantasies seems to grow. On the surface all seems okay yet the inherent nature of a human being
propels one to indulge. Why not enjoy the best in life. The opposite sex always inspires us for indulgence.
Unable to find a suitable channel... wet dreams follow!
We masturbate and let loose our energy and inertia but what if the back
supply is abound. If we desire controlling wet dreams in spite of masturbation... we need to exercise control
of our thoughts. Thoughts of bestial nature... thoughts that lead to sexual indulgence makes us have wet
dreams in the night. No perverse thoughts... no wet dreams! Initially the effects would be minimal but slowly
absolute control over wet dreams can be exercised.
Apart from thoughts of bestial nature, God Almighty gives every human
being a monthly quota of energy. Unless we intelligently plan and preserve this energy... it would find
undesirable channels in the night. Removing all thoughts of the opposite sex results in no wet dreams in the
night. But how to control thought process? If we pray to God that until marriage I shall practice absolute
celibacy... never indulging in thoughts of perverse nature... we can definitely exercise an effective control
over wet dreams.
Essay by: Kaivalya
Jnani ... One who realized self in his life time! Send your query!
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