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Query: Masturbating... How can i reduce masturbating. Every day i do this dirty job? Does this effect me my future sex life?

Vijay Kumar:
If you have a fixed goal of life... you would always come out of your bad habits all at once! When human beings have nothing else to do... we simply indulge in fun. The sight of a lady... and we indulge in self gratification... to what end!

Masturbation by no means is good for one... although God Almighty ordained it so! As the pressure valve in a pressure cooker... human beings were provided with this facility to ease themselves when the need be. This process is not only limited to males but females also indulge in fantasies often.

God Almighty ordained a quota of potent cosmic energy for every man and woman month after month for the entire life. By preserving this quota of energy... by channeling this quota of energy... by transmutation of this perfect cosmic energy... one becomes a JRD Tata or Bill Gates in life... visionary par excellence!

The human form is the highest manifest stage in the cosmic life cycle. Only in the human form our soul atman within regains its original pure pristine form the moment human beings reached the stage of enlightenment (kaivalya jnana) and finally salvation (moksha).

If the monthly quota of cosmic energy was not available to human beings... it would not have been possible for human beings to reach the stage of enlightenment and salvation. For reaching the goal of our life... for becoming an enlightened one... one needs not only preserving this quota of energy... but transmuting it to more creative channels!

Every human being by preserving and transmuting this quota of energy in present life can reach the stage of Mahavira, Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ or Prophet Mohammed! But do we really achieve all this? Most human beings in life while away this potent energy through purely physical channels... through the path of masturbation!

To get out of the rut of this ugly habit... one needs practicing the celibacy mantra... the path of celibacy! One may or may not desire traveling the spiritual path... yet; practicing the celibacy mantra is a requisite for all wanting to gain absolute success in life! And what is this celibacy mantra all about?

Following the path of celibacy... the path of preserving this vital quota of energy through the grace of God... propels one towards absolute happiness and success in life. On the path of spirituality... practice of celibacy for a minimum period of 12 years in continuation is a must! One can never reach the stage of Mahavira, Gautama Buddha, Jesus Christ or Prophet Mohammed without the practice of celibacy.

Celibacy is all about controlling the excessive sexual energies and channelising them towards more creative goals of life! Easily said than done! Practice of celibacy in present times is extremely difficult when mankind is immersed in carnal desires and also all kinds of materialistic wants and riches.

On the path of celibacy... only three relationships exist with the womenfolk. Every lady on Mother Earth is either like our mother... sister... or daughter! No other relationship other than these three exists for a true practitioner of celibacy. When married... practitioners of celibacy need controlling their sensual desires. The sexual indulgences must be limited to a maximum of two per month. This is all what celibacy mantra is all about!

Treating every woman like our mother, sister or daughter is very difficult to practice life! Those who have a definite goal in life accomplish it. For the rest... those without a goal in life... life is like a rudderless boat going round and round in the ocean!

Whether we take the spiritual path or desire becoming a successful entrepreneur in physical life... establishing absolute control over the sensual desires is a must. Controlling and transmuting the excessive sexual energies... one can reach the stage of Bill Gates. This is not merely a saying... go and ask one the likes of Bill Gates or a JRD Tata!

Indulgence in masturbation or sex must be limited to a maximum of two per month... this is the prime requisite of the path of celibacy! How to accomplish it... how not to get attracted to the riches of the ephemeral world... is the onus of every individual human being living on Mother Earth. All depending upon the goal of life we choose!

Furthermore... one who indulges in masturbation or sex often does not keep healthy. It definitely affects the life of every human being... the physical relationships and everything around! Limiting our desires to a minimum is the best way out.

Essay by: Vijay Kumar "Atma Jnani" ... One who realized self in his life time! Send your query!

A to Z of Masturbating explained in words everyone can easily understand and fathom. More on weakness can be found at : How to Stop Masturbating ... Vijay Kumar - 5th June 2010.

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